Distance makes the heart grow fonder

Or is it stronger?

Not sure, and not really sure how I feel about that phrase. Justin's brother Ryan graduated from BYU this week. Yay! So Justin went out to celebrate and support. He left early Wednesday morning, and is currently in the air on his way back to me. Having him gone for a grand total of 96 hours has not been the most fun I've ever had. Luckily I have a full time job and have had lots of extra stuff going on this week after school, so I haven't even gotten home until between 8- 10:30 each night. You'd think that you'd be tired after such long days.

Unfortunately, I can't sleep :( The best part of every day hasn't been there, and I think I just felt restless without my favorite friend. So I decided to do a shout-out blog to my dearest, darlingest sweetheart.

I know a lot of you may know Justin. Let me tell you, if you ever thought he was a great guy, if you ever thought he was a hard worker, if you ever thought he was a fun friend, uplifting, charismatic, talented, etc... I can assure you that he's all those things and more.

A lot of people say the first year of marriage is very eye-opening and even a difficult adjustment. Let me say that it's been eye-opening, but an absolute pleasure! I've realized that Justin is not only as good and wonderful as I expected he would be, but he's been so much more. He's a very kind, caring, compassionate husband. He's so thoughtful and patient and works so hard to do sweet things for me on a daily basis. He constantly surprises me with sweet things and takes time to do little things like pack my lunch, do the dishes, take out the trash, move the laundry through, or just text me to say he loves me.

We've talked a lot about how fun marriage is. Sometimes it feels like we're playing house, sometimes it feels like a dream, sometimes we're the best of friends hanging out or playing games or watching tv, sometimes we're an old couple just snuggling or holding hands, sometimes we feel like parents who get excited when their kids (our plants) start sprouting or blooming or who feel sad when other plants seem to struggle with their growth, sometimes he's my late-night talker or my problem solver, sometimes he's my therapist, sometimes my cheuffer, sometimes Justin's the best chef I've ever had, my housekeeper, my garbage disposal, my cheerleader, my leading man, my partner in crime, my comforter, my dream maker, my comic, my muse, my handy-man, my gardener, my competition in Settlers or Backgammon, my inspiration to be kinder, my mail man, my carpenter, my shoulder to cry on or the one who picks me up when I'm down.

i LOVE being married to this man. I absolutely think I get to be touched by an angel every single day. I'm so grateful that we belong to a church that teaches that we will be able to be husband and wife literally for forever. What an absolute blessing.

I'm sorry to be so sappy. It wasn't until I realized Justin's coming home that I realized how much I've missed him :(

I like to say that sappiness is happiness.

Clearly, I'm a happy girl!!! :)

Quick yet vital blogging question

So, obviously I'm not the world's best blogger. Getting better though! So to all of you out there more well-versed in blogging than I: HOW DO I MAKE MY FAMILY/FRIEND BLOG LINKS SORT BY HOW RECENTLY THEY POSTED? That would make my life so much better.

In advance, I thank you SO much for answering this question. And if somebody already answered it, well I want your comment too! I might be too much of a novice to get their idea and yours might actually work for me!

THANKS!

We LOVE gardening!

About a month ago Erin and I decided we wanted to try to have a little garden out on our balcony. However, we ran into a little problem...we hade never gardened in containers before. So we got a little creative and purchased a few bins and topsy turvys and a LOT of soil and started off. We now have 7 different vegetables, 3 different fruit, 2 different herbs and 5 varieties of flowers.

We have loved planting the seeds and watching them grow and just ate our first strawberry the other day. We practically treat the plants like our kids and hurry home from work each day to see how they are doing and water them.

Here are some pictures for you and we will be sure to keep you posted on their progress.

Last 9 Months...

So to catch you up on what we haven't been posting: Erin teaches math. Some days are great, some are not. And some are really not. Definitely more difficult than she anticipated. Weekends and holidays are wonderful. Justin is enjoying his work at Gallopade and Delta more and more, but is still searching and applying for every relevent full-time job.


In the fall: Justin was the lead in a local play. He was Frank Butler in Annie Get Your Gun. It was actually b/c of the show that he got hooked up with Gallopade International (thank you Mr. Delorenzo!!) Erin coached jv volleyball for SMHS. For Thanksgiving we went to Hilton Head Island with Erin's family. Tons o fun! Over Christmas we flew out to Utah to go to a friend's wedding and to see family and friends. After a quick 3 day stay, we flew to Missouri for Christmas. Again, tons o fun! Yay for having such fun families!!! (and families-in-law!) For winter break we tried to go back out to Utah again but the flights were terrible b/c of 2,000 cancellations in ATL from snow, plus the holiday weekend, so we ended up in the Seattle airport for 13 hours on Valentine's day, and finally got on a flight to SLC and immediately hopped the last flight to Pocatello to visit Justin's grandparents. For Spring break, we have done a lot of resting and went to DC for one day. School gets out May 28th, Erin is excited, and we both miss the days when we both got to sleep in together or stay up late b/c we knew we could sleep in. Ahhhh, to be an adult... Here's some pics of the highlights of the last many, many months (in reverse order b/c I'm too lazy to rearrange all the pictures):

For our 1-year anniversary we went to an AMAZING seafood restaurant in Atlanta. SO good!

Post-dinner: yummy!

Eating crawfish in Savannah GA

More crawfish On the plane to Savannah, most AMAZING stand-by story ever and we ALL made it and sat next to each other: miracles happen!

Happy Valentines Day from Justin. Delivered during school while I was teaching, I started to cry and my students' lives were changed. The girls wanted husbands to do sweet things for them, and the guys wanted to be those kinds of husbands:)

Justin and Reese at Christmas. She definitely remembered him!

Fishing over Thanksgiving. Didn't catch anything, but had fun trying!

Trying to learn to cast :)

At the beach over Thanksgiving

Annual first day of school tradition: Chick-Fil-A breakfast in pj's!

Part of our birthday present to Katie on the last night we saw her before our move :(

We're cool.

Me and Reese before we left (she didn't quite remember me at Christmas)

Justin graduated in May
Yep, we're the fun couple!

Museums, memorials, and monuments, OH MY!

This week is Erin's Spring Break, and we decided to celebrate our 1-year anniversary by going to DC for a day trip. (Oh the blessings of flight benefits).


We got up bright and early, headed to the airport, flew to DC, took the Metro into the city, and walked over 9 miles checking out the monuments, memorials, and museums. It was a glorious, splendid day and we had a lot of fun walking all over the place. Here's some of the highlights:

Waiting for the Metro outside the airport

Vietnam War Memorial (Justin said at night it's cool b/c there's metal slabs that reflect the light and make it look like the soldiers are walking through rice paddies)

Washington Monument (WAY taller and wider than I ever thought)

Jefferson Memorial (Monument?) across Reflection Pool

Lincoln - GREAT man!

In front of the new WWII Memorial right in between the Washington and Jefferson Monuments
Justin is an ant compared to this monster.

Arlington Cemetery

Hope Diamond (this was the BEST Smithsonian!)

A 30-room dollhouse. It was ridiculously huge and meticulously detailed.

The Fonze's (sp?) jacket

Kermit the Frog!!!

Some beautiful building in downtown DC.
We saw this house and realized we'd forgotten our eggs and t.p. Shucks. Maybe next time...

Overall, SUCH a fun trip. We were definitely tired after walking around all day, but it was good exercise and good practice. We're hoping to do the Susan G. Komen 3-day (you walk 60 miles over 3 days as a breast cancer fundraiser), and it was a huge reality check of what it'll take to walk 20 miles a day. Augh! Made me think twice about it... Has anybody ever done the 3-day? Advice?

Back in Business!!

WE HAVE THE INTERNET AT OUR APARTMENT!! That's right folks, we are back online! And, since it's my Spring Break, once I finish cleaning the house, I plan on doing a full update on including pictures!!

In short: we're happy, can't believe we hit the one year mark, and loving our apartment. School's going well for me. Justin's enjoying his work at Gallopade and Delta and still searching for a full-time job. And we finally have a computer and internet. YAY!

The Move

Let's be honest: blogging is not my forte. I know I saw that everytime I blog, so I think I'll just trust that the rest of you have already realized this and quit stating the obvious. Once again, I blame it on lack of pictures. Actually, we have tons of pictures to post, but I feel lame blogging without them and as our camera cords are somewhere in the stack of boxes in the garage...

What has happened since last I posted? Oh so much! First of all, we left Utah June 19th to begin our first move/trek across the country in Justin's non-air-conditioned car towing a little trailer. To prepare ourselves for the anticipated heat, we bought two little fans and a pack of 18 washcloths to keep damp in the cooler on the ice (for our necks/heads if needed), lots of water/gatorade, and we bought do-it-yourself tinting at Wal-mart. Day 1 was pretty good. The weather was nice, it was driving through Utah and Wyoming and we didn't ever have to break out the washcloths. That tinting CHANGED OUR LIVES. We were doing really good driving-wise, so we ended up driving to Omaha in a long, 14-hr day. Spent the night at a hotel there, but when we left in the morning we realized we were definitely in humid, mid-west country now. The rest of the way to Willard, MO (outside Springfield, where Justin's family lives) was hot, humid, and we were so set on reading Harry Potter that we didn't want to roll the windows down as it would hurt our ability to read out loud and also that it might mess up the tint. Anyways, that was a pretty miserable day. Thank goodness for the wonder that is ice in washcloths, cold beverages that replenish fluids and quench thirst, and the glory that two fans can provide. Plus a loving, patient, thoughtful husband who is more concerned for my own comfort than how hot he might be. That's some serious love. Anyways, got to Willard, took showers, and suddenly birds were singing and flowers were blooming again. Had an EXCELLENT visit there. Stayed Saturday afternoon through early (4 am) Thursday morning. Stayed for Father's Day, went to Andy's custard place, Lambert's Cafe (AMAZING), and the Bass Pro Shop headquarters. SO much fun. Unfortunately, all good visits must come to an end, so we woke up super super early Thursday morning after deciding that we would rather die than drive the 12 hours to Peachtree City, GA entirely in daylight hours. And after chastisement from both sets of parents, decided we'd also roll the windows down.

Oh my goodness, parents are so wise! You know how you go through phases in your life where you say "oh, I'm a college graduate (with two degrees, thank you very much), I'm married, we hitched up this trailer (Justin did), I have a grown-up job, I can figure out what's the best way to stay cool as we move across the country while still being able to read Harry Potter aloud..." Well, then you have a miserable day and realize you should listen more to the adults around you who have been saying something else all along. Yay for humbling, learning moments. Plus they make good stories to tell to future generations, right? My grandkids will say "tell us the story of when you and Grandpa moved across the country without airconditioning" and their eyes will go wide and they'll be so impressed that we had the strength and courage to do that. They'll probably call us modern day pioneers. Cool.

So the last day of driving was bearable. Hot, but bearable. SO glad we left so early in the day. We definitely drove through the Ozarks of Arkansas and saw tons of little po-dunk towns. We stopped for gas at this one place where it literally took 20 minutes to pump 3 gallons. The numbers literally crawled. Funny, but not at the moment. It was pretty scenery though!?

Anyways, so we get to GA and take a shower and eat and enjoy playing with my family. We unloaded the trailer into a nice little spot my mom cleaned out for us the in garage and returned the trailer. Went to the pool with Claire, got fried, then left on Sunday morning for our long-awaited, much-belated HONEYMOON at Disney World!!! Yay! The post on that will be coming next. I need to take a break first.